Simon
Before his stroke, Simon describes life as “really busy with plenty of work and play.”
His days were a mix of working for the local authority, going out running, and spending time with his loved ones. There was structure, independence and the perfect balance of work, family and fun. But Simon's whole world changed in November 2024. At the age of 51, he suffered a devastating stroke which left him struggling to communicate.
Recovery has been ongoing, bringing challenges that have required patience, resilience and adjustment - not just for Simon, but for those around him too. Nearly one year on from his stroke, Simon was referred to Aphasia Support's Communication Group in York.
When speaking is the hardest part
For Simon, speaking is the most difficult aspect of aphasia.
“Speaking is the hardest. Some people assume I’ve got an inability to think but that’s not the case. It’s verbalising it all that’s hard.”
Simon shares a common misunderstanding. Aphasia doesn't affect intelligence. Simon can still think clearly and understand what's being said. Due to brain damage caused by the stroke, aphasia makes it hard for Simon to say the words he wants to say.
A life changed immeasurably
The impact of the stroke, on Simon and his family, has been profound.
“I had a stroke in Nov 2024 and been in recovery ever since."
Simon shared how life changed “Immeasurably. We went from both of us working full time to just one of us, and that included some caring responsibilities as well.”
The shift from two full-time incomes to one, alongside caring responsibilities, brought financial, practical, emotional changes. For Simon, his wife and children, everyday life looked very different.
Joining the York Communication Group
In October of last year, Simon began looking for ways to stay active and engaged.
“Initially [the York Communication Group] was a chance to fill my diary, but very quickly, it became a session not to miss - despite having to catch two busses to get there!”
The group quickly became an important and valued part of Simon’s week. The people he met, and the support he received, made it so special.
“The mixing of different people, differing ages and differing abilities was what struck me.”
That variety created a unique environment - one built on shared experience, patience and understanding. Although Simon and his family had received support from other services, he explains that “almost nothing was the same as this one.”
Why this group matters
After a stroke, many people with aphasia experience challenges with communication that can affect their confidence. Lack of public awareness and understanding of aphasia can make the thought of speaking with others feel daunting, stressful and isolating.
One of Simon's biggest achievements has been rebuilding his confidence.
“My confidence has improved, definitely. From catching the bus to shopping in town.”
For Simon, life is starting to feel brighter, fuller, and more independent. He encourages other local people affected by aphasia to take part in the group:
“Good chance to get together with others. It’s worth the effort.”
Aphasia Support's Communication Group in York offers specialist support for people with aphasia and their loved ones. Led by Speech and Language Therapist, Karen Stromberg, weekly sessions are tailored around the individual needs of participants, focusing on improving communication skills, building confidence, and providing a safe and supportive space in the heart of York. For people like Simon, it’s a lifeline.
It has been our privilege to get to know Simon and see the brilliant progress he has made - making friendships, rebuilding confidence and enjoying greater independence in everyday life. That's what makes this group invaluable.
If you'd like to hear more about our York Communication Group, or discover group support local to you, please click here to view our current locations or get in touch with our team by calling 0300 102 3500.
Published in 2026.
